I went soft....twice. Softcockitis

[arquin]

So a girl stayed over for two nights. We didn't have much sex, maybe 7 times, and like 3ish-4 hours worth. But the last two times I started getting soft. Not like...flippy floppy soft. But not rock hard, and I like to aim for certain areas to thrust towards, when your dicks floppy it makes t hard because it bends. So we stopped having sex.

Things to rule out:

A. Me being gay,
B. Me not being able to perform period (The night before I gave her multiplies)
C. Her not turning me on (she's fucking INCREDIBLE in bed, and hot).

So here's my only two theories:

A. I have HARDCORE anxiety lately and take a shitload of valium/xanax. The night night I preformed really really well I had taken them, but I hadn't taken them for the two times that I went soft (performance anxiety?)

B. I took my antipsychotic Zyprexa (Olanzapine) about 1 hour before having sex with her the last two times.

Help needed. I'm a sexual person and sex > everything. She's super understanding and says we'll work through it. But its humiliating. So if it happens a few more times I'm gonna bail on on the relationship.

[Xiao Mei]

In the past, arquin, I suspected you might be nothing but an attention whore.

Now you have confirmed my suspicions.

[yoyobek]

Why would you bail on the relationship just because of a few sexual problems that may be a one off?


A coward you are not. I think dumping her because
you've got a problem would be cutting off your nose to spite your face.

[arquin]

Originally Posted by Xiao Mei

In the past, arquin, I suspected you might be nothing but an attention whore.

Now you have confirmed my suspicions.

Hey you middle aged ugly whore, aren't you that bitch that wanted to kill her new born? Your opinion is invalid. You mean nothing. You are scum; shit (the type that wont flush), a pathetic person. Go brag about your "Husband in the airforce with a massive cock and how much you love anal". Dumb cunt. Go kill your child.

P.S. He cheated on you, when you were married. MARRIED. The highest of commitment possible, and you're still with him. Your opinion = void. So, bitch, die.

[Euda]

Back in fine form, eh?

You answered your own question. Anxiety.

[Xiao Mei]

Originally Posted by arquin

Hey you middle aged ugly whore, aren't you that bitch that wanted to kill her new born? Your opinion is invalid. You mean nothing. You are scum; shit (the type that wont flush), a pathetic person. Go brag about your "Husband in the airforce with a massive cock and how much you love anal". Dumb cunt. Go kill your child.

P.S. He cheated on you, when you were married. MARRIED. The highest of commitment possible, and you're still with him. Your opinion = void. So, bitch, die.

In the past, arquin, I suspected that maybe your attention whoring was due to immature stupidity.

You have now confirmed my suspicions.

[TEMPIST]

Originally Posted by arquin

A. I have HARDCORE anxiety lately and take a shitload of valium/xanax. The night night I preformed really really well I had taken them, but I hadn't taken them for the two times that I went soft (performance anxiety?)

B. I took my antipsychotic Zyprexa (Olanzapine) about 1 hour before having sex with her the last two times.

Help needed. I'm a sexual person and sex > everything. She's super understanding and says we'll work through it. But its humiliating. So if it happens a few more times I'm gonna bail on on the relationship.

Have you been taking valium/xanax prior to the time you performed well. if you did you might be starting to get psychological dependence on those drugs to perform.
Also no neuroleptic drug will be good for your sex drive.
i say next time you have sex and you feel anxiety grab a hold of viagra and take no more than half-you will perform well and regain you manhood in her eyes.
Good luck

[xiahoudun]

You can spot a troll a mile away. Anyone who replies with a serious answer just failed themselves. Dont feed the troll!

[SilentMind]

Originally Posted by arquin

Hey you middle aged ugly whore, aren't you that bitch that wanted to kill her new born? Your opinion is invalid. You mean nothing. You are scum; shit (the type that wont flush), a pathetic person. Go brag about your "Husband in the airforce with a massive cock and how much you love anal". Dumb cunt. Go kill your child.

P.S. He cheated on you, when you were married. MARRIED. The highest of commitment possible, and you're still with him. Your opinion = void. So, bitch, die.

Damn aussies, you can't talk to our women like that.

[Mr.Happy]

Originally Posted by arquin

Hey you middle aged ugly whore, aren't you that bitch that wanted to kill her new born? Your opinion is invalid. You mean nothing. You are scum; shit (the type that wont flush), a pathetic person. Go brag about your "Husband in the airforce with a massive cock and how much you love anal". Dumb cunt. Go kill your child.

P.S. He cheated on you, when you were married. MARRIED. The highest of commitment possible, and you're still with him. Your opinion = void. So, bitch, die.

Looks like your problem with your penis has really put you on edge, huh?

Don't worry, this doesn't make you any less of a man. Taking cheap shots at somebody over the internet does, but hey, I'm sure your man-standing can take it. After all, you constantly tell everybody on the forums what an incredible sexual machine you are.