Everyone starting out with a girl, READ THIS NOW!

[NitrousMafia]

YEP i swore itd never happen again but it did.....Fucking blew an engine on this one....What am i talking about ur wondering? I lost all my chips that i had in on this girl, just got straight up killed a bit ago.....Quick rundown of the whole situation..alot of people this is going on with too recently/

Met a girl, did seriously work, she vibed me(ditching out hanging with her friends to hang with me, not even questioning or stalling out when it came to making plans for a date)...went out 2 days in a row...went to 2 movies..such and such forth. I never put a move on her cause i wasnt feeling her..just wasnt cause it was like i was talking/being around a robot i just did too much work and she was just too blank..it felt like me 95% effort and her 5%....Because i didnt make a move...done for...paid for it..just got my final notice today...2 weeks ago she stopped responding pretty much, she use to talk to me minimally at least once a day(thats her contacting me not me saying anything to her) that fizzled out, no more texts, no more calls, not even responding to my messages online anymore...so its -1 off the list

So if ur in a current situation with a girl..starting off fresh...just DO WORK regardless...whether or not u think its wrong or the right time to make a move...u gotta stomp out the shit or ull end up losing a girl that could be seriously interested in you and or a really descent girl

/rant

Also i may have lost one but i gained 2....but still i chastise myself a bit but like they say dont write it off as a failure but a lesson learned....So thats what i took it down for even tho lookin at the situation at a whole, its fucking terrible.....Just letting you know it can happen no matter how good u think u are with a female...Just peaked and crashed like the stock market within 1 week..no lie.

[Funeral Thirst]

I don't see how thats a bad thing if you weren't feeling her....

[NitrousMafia]

it just feels a loss..

let me elaborate more on the feeling her situation...she was really attractive in all ways..except her tits were a bit small...still didnt matter to me...Anyways i joke alot, not just with girls, i like to be a comedian...so id eventually get around to joking with her or making some comedy on her and she just couldnt keep up, she'd just say whatever or give a 1-2 word response back....Now other girls i make fun of them and they come back on me with good lines and i love that.... then once in a while shed just bust a joke on me...like she was shy...now if u ask me.....thats like a guilt trip..im sitting here got a girl that vibes me and i feel like i havent put any skill into it(which i didnt besides what it took to drive there to meet up with her LMFAO)....so its like i did nothing to get this? And then she acts lifeless except for when she talks to me on the phone shes got some energy in her.....idk

Oh well gott a lunch date with one of the other 2 girls now, going to retone my confidence after dropping this ^^^ above girl..(re-bumping that other thread i made a while back of the girl using my own techniques on me..thats who i be meeting up with in 20....might cop a pic possibly as proof haha)

[Funeral Thirst]

I can't stand when girls don't get my jokes. It makes me want to punch them in the face and walk away.

[ApocalypsePlease]

Originally Posted by Funeral Thirst

I can't stand when girls don't get my jokes. It makes me want to punch them in the face and walk away.

Perhaps they're terrible jokes and they're acting stupid to make you feel better.

I hope that isn't it, because it happens to me all the time.

To be truly funny, you have to know your audience e.g. don't make puns involving astrophysics around... anybody. Chances are you'll end up looking like a jackass, myself included.

[Raptafairious]

Whatever you do, DON'T open yourself up to a girl you don't know very well... Made that mistake today, and probably going to regret it later. And the best thing is that after I told her, I tried to shift my status and try cover it up with lies... Not good. Its like pulling a blanket over the truth, even though they've already seen it. Dont make the same mistake I did and get to know them before you tell them!

[NitrousMafia]

idk depends what u say joke wise..they may be into u too much to respond..or not just plain understand whether or not its on something they understand or not......

Had it happen minorly, but usually they either bust out laughing, plain laugh or just a comment, few silent/non understanding moments...since i always trying to make comedy on very familiar situations

But when it involves something with the girl....specifically this one id say something about her shoes or sandles and shed just be like whatever or shit...its like if someone says anything about my stuff i give more than a 1 word response....she was the only one if met..guy and girl wise..that cant fend for themself..so its like nice cant even have fun....and even when she did have a rebuttle she came back softly.....oh well fuck her...going back to my other topic...

[NitrousMafia]

Originally Posted by Raptafairious

Whatever you do, DON'T open yourself up to a girl you don't know very well... Made that mistake today, and probably going to regret it later. And the best thing is that after I told her, I tried to shift my status and try cover it up with lies... Not good. Its like pulling a blanket over the truth, even though they've already seen it. Dont make the same mistake I did and get to know them before you tell them!

what did u say...i opened up nicely with this girl this topic is made about....so everything should of been legit but she still acted shy.....i didnt lie about anything except the last girl i went out(just halfed it, half true, half lie lol) with and other stuff..i just bridge the truth....instead of giving specifics i just give the broad basics hahah...cause shit they dont kno ur past history and unless ur looking at the ceiling or the floor...just keep shit related to u and u can lie all u want

[Nihilist]

this hot and cold shit is a hallmark of young and/or immature girls. theyre not really interested in you, just the attention, and as soon as theyve gotten enough youre a stranger.

just remember: girls will make time consistently if theyre interested. if they start flaking, stop calling and move on.

and dont fall for the 'renewed interest' shit. if thyey didnt like you the first time, they wont like you now. other than for your attention.

[SHBA]

So you failed.. learn from it. Try to make your move on the first date, better to escalate and be told to slow down then to go to slowly and miss your window with practice you will learn to calibrate better.