So i really want my girl to go on the pill.

[Stephanie]

No we had few close calls and let me tell you she was freaking out more than i was. As for IUD its a good suggestion but i dont think she would like to have a string in her. Thanx anyways.

You'd think the bitch would have learned from those "close calls". And Jills Nipple, I MUST be brainless because I don't want to get pregnant at 18 and am taking the necessary precautions not to, thanks for letting me know!

[Stephanie]

Originally Posted by Ziv423

Birth control pills affect women in more ways than just "no babies".

Thats true, but I find that having a steady flow of estrogen and progesterone in me actually regulates my mood and keeps me happy. When a girl isn't taking any birth control (hormones) she has hormone peaks and drops throughout the month which cause her to be nice some days, and a huge beast on others. I prefer it this way.

[Knobchops]

What about those little rods that are surgically inserted into the arm? CBF doing my research so I don't know what they're called, but if I remember correctly they're pretty foolproof (if inserted by a competent doctor), relatively non-invasive (the only sign you have one is a tiny rectangular bump about 2mm x 20mm usually between the inner bicep and tricep) and last for about 2 years before you need a new one.

EDIT:: Okay, took 3 seconds on wikipedia, heres what I was talking about http://tinyurl.com/ykfwoo

[Mr1Egg]

IMO the pill is a bad thing.

You're fucking with natures way.

Yeah, no babies is what you want but as someone else said before, it does more than just 'no babies'

Tarp up instead fucker.

[Alex9382]

My girl constantly gets UTI's and Yeast infections. Is it true some girls have to take anti-biotics constantly if they want to have sex? Anyways, she's going on birth control today and im very very happy.

[Xiao Mei]

Originally Posted by Stephanie

You'd think the bitch would have learned from those "close calls". And Jills Nipple, I MUST be brainless because I don't want to get pregnant at 18 and am taking the necessary precautions not to, thanks for letting me know!

Some women just don't like the excess of hormones./shrug They can always just use condoms or a diaphragm.

[Xiao Mei]

Originally Posted by Alex9382

My girl constantly gets UTI's and Yeast infections. Is it true some girls have to take anti-biotics constantly if they want to have sex? Anyways, she's going on birth control today and im very very happy.

My sister has the same problem. Her doctor advised her so stop wearing thong underwear and pantyhose.

[KoldBane]

She does seem like quite a naturalist if she'll go as far as no Tylenol. I would let her know that you respect her decision first off. If you try and change it without letting her know that you're okay with it in the first place then you may lead yourself into trouble.
If that's the only excuse, chances are you guys haven't really sat down and talked about it like two mature people, which you should be before you start having the chance to make babies IMO.
So let her know that your feelings, and that her actions could seem selfish to some (she demands you put on protection but does nothing herself? cmon folks, that's a bit selfish).
And in the end if she still chooses not to, respect that and work accordingly. If you love her, you can make some sacrifices to have her happy.

[Duck In Fog]

Originally Posted by Stephanie

That's not an excuse, the only reason not to want to take birth control is because she wishes to get pregnant

I started taking it long before my boyfriend and I started having sex, or even discussing it. It was something that mattered and was important to me.
Your "naturalist" girlfriend obviously feels differently about her sexual health, if she's going to pull that shit tell her to get an IUD, hassle free birth control with no hormones being put into your body.

But I personally just think you should get a new girlfriend, you know one who cares if she gets pregnant or not.

How do you know it's because she wants to get pregnant or doesn't care?
For all you know they're using condoms and the reason he wants her on the pill is so he can get a better feeling and doesn't have to worry about wrapping it up.

Maybe she's worried because of health issues? There can be side-effects, you know.

I was wary about going on the pill until I got used to the idea of it, before that I was a little skeptical.

You sound like a real bitch.

"You'd think the bitch would have learned from those "close calls" "

I don't understand why it was necessary to refer to her as "the bitch" when you've not even heard the full story.


Op dude: Why don't you talk to HER why she doesn't want to? I mean yea, she's said she doesn't think it's natural, but ask her what about it worries her and offer to take her tot he doctor to get some reassurance that it won't do her harm.

[JoePedo]

Originally Posted by TEMPIST

So i really want my girl to go on the pill.
The only excuse that she can give me is that is not natural. Can you help a guy out by giving me some advise on what to tell her.

"I love and honor you, and respect your decisions as to what is right for your body."


"By the way, we'll be having anal later tonight."

....some people would advise stopping after the first sentence... buuuuut... this is totse.